How to Create Emotional Connection with Women Instantly

It doesn’t matter how successful you are in life…

If a woman doesn’t feel anything for you

Your relationship won’t stand the test of time.

Sooner or later, you’ll break up.

Or she won’t want a relationship with you in the first place.

Building a sense of connection with women is the most powerful thing you can do.

Your relationship success depends on it.

The problem is most men have no idea how to do it.

They think it’s about the things you say.

They learn techniques like rapport building questions.

While these things help…

They don’t nurture the connection you need to have an intimate and passionate relationship with a loving woman.

What you really need, first and foremost, is Presence.

When you have Presence you can look her straight in the eyes…

As if nothing else in the world is happening right now…

Just you and her in this exact moment.

You don’t get caught up in your head…

When you talk to her, you’ll feel like your souls have connected.

Your energies will join and she’ll think, “Wow! This guy gets me.”

And the great thing is…

It’s not hard to develop.

You don’t have to meditate on top of a mountain for decades…

This is a skill you can develop relatively quickly.

And the more you practice it, the better you get at it.

What’s more, few men today know how to do this.

In fact, nearly all guys are ignorant of it.

Yet women crave it like crazy.

It allows you to build massive emotional connection with them.

Something that most men fail at miserably.

So when you practice Presence with women…

You’ll give them that feeling of immediate intimacy modern women have been craving.

Without this special feeling of human connection in your life…

You’ll always have a sense of loneliness.

However, when you discover how to do it…

You’ll grow as a person.

You’ll feel at one with others.

It will truly lighten up your world.

I’m excited to share this with you.

This is why I’ve put together a short video about presence with a 7-minute guided meditation in the middle.

Watch closely, and you’ll start to develop this crucial skill.

Afterwards, you can keep practicing and notice its effects…

Whether it’s with your woman, a friend, or anyone else you meet throughout your day.

You can watch it here at the video above!


I don’t want you to be single and lonely.

Or face the heartbreak of broken relationships.

Presence will enable you to build the connection you need to create and enjoy an intimate, passionate relationship that lasts with the women you desire.

So watch this short presentation and start practicing presence now.

To Do Now: Watch the entire video carefully, and then leave us a comment!

53 responses to “How to Create Emotional Connection with Women Instantly (Video 2)”

  1. David, you sure don’t look like a university professor, that’s for sure. And I mean that in the best way possible.

  2. This crisis between men and women has been brewing for some time. Now we are just seeing the tip of the iceberg but there were a lot of earlier signs for this. Anyway, looking forward to your program.

  3. Presence or living in the moment is something that should be taught in schools. So many men and also some women don’t know how to do it. They get sidetracked by all sorts of things and can’t keep their mind anchored in the present no matter how hard they try.

    • As long as you sat relatively still with your eyes closed during the meditation and didn’t fall asleep, you did a good job! Glad you enjoyed it.

  4. I have a friend that manages (somehow) to be present almost all the time. I don’t know how he does it but everyone is drawn to him like metal to a magnet. It’s something scary. I want to be able to be present but don’t know how.

  5. Sometimes it seems like women expect so much from us men. It can get very tiresome especially when you don’t really understand what they want.

  6. I have a good feeling about this upcoming program. I hope it will help me improve my love life.

  7. I want to understand my emotional triggers and learn how to deal with them because they are ruining my life.

  8. This is so weird! Only 3 days ago I started reading about how to be more present in a relationship (my wife begged me to do something about this) and now, here you are.

  9. I think we should all strive for lifelong romance. I mean, what’s the point of spending your life with someone if it’s not going to be a wonderful experience?

  10. I’ve had a few moments when I was connected to the feelings and emotions of my girlfriend. This has happened recently and it was like something I had never experienced before. It was life altering and I’m doing my best to be this way more. I just try to stay focused on what she’s saying and after a few minutes I can “feel” her emotions. I don’t know how to explain it in words but I wish all men could sense this.

  11. It was very hard for me to keep my mind still during the meditation. My thoughts kept coming and going all the time.

    • That’s perfectly normal! The purpose of meditation is NOT to “keep your mind still.” Start with just OBSERVING your thoughts come and go and that you are not your thoughts.

  12. My boyfriend needs to see this video. Going to send him over here and ask him to give your program a try. He wants to be better and just doesn’t know what to do.

  13. I honestly don’t know what my needs and motivations are. I tried thinking about it but I just don’t know. How can I figure it out?

  14. Is your program based on meditations? I’m asking because I never was any good at it and I don’t know if that will ever change unfortunately. Is there something different to do for men/people that don’t connect very well with meditation?

    • Emotional Mastery will be a tested combination of explainer videos, meditations, and written reflection exercises. The exercises are especially important. So even if you aren’t comfortable with meditating at first (you’ll get better over time if you stick with it), the training exercises can take you a long way.

  15. I’ve always had a sort of powerful empathy, being able to feel the pain and happiness that others (men and women) were feeling. I know most men find it hard to be empathetic towards others, especially women and it’s too bad. Empathy can bring us all closer.

  16. I don’t know many men that are good at emotional closeness. I think they are quite few and between. This is a skill that we just weren’t taught.

  17. How can some men just calm down when they get nervous? I’ve tried and for me, it just didn’t work no matter what I did. It’s like a superpower that I would like to have.

  18. Took me years of my life to realize I was acting from pain and fear. I was afraid of speaking out, of being my true self but once I found my inner power and with the help of my true love, I am a changed man.

  19. Yeah, that meditation part was relaxing but I almost fell asleep. I’m not used to doing this and maybe I’ve relaxed too much.

  20. My parents have lived in the old paradigm for 40 years and they are happy. So I don’t think this is for everyone. I, for one, can’t live like my parents but they are doing just fine.

  21. It’s so difficult to control my emotions when I’m in an emotional state of mind. My mind is clouded and it’s hard to distinguish bad from good and I usually do and say stupid things.

  22. I’ve recently heard about the flow state and I would absolutely love to learn more about it. It’s a dream of mine to be able to get into it at will.

  23. That meditation part didn’t do anything for me. I must be broken haha or something. I don’t know if I’m the kind of guy that can meditate.

    • The 7-minute meditation is NOT a hypnosis or a magic spell LOL. It’s a PRACTICE, like working out. Even the best work out will wear off unless you continue to do it consistently over time. This is a preview of how easy it can be to practice developing psychological PRESENCE.

  24. I’ve never experienced a presence meditation. It was very pleasant and if this is just a taste of what’s to come then I am all in!

  25. Oh, you don’t want to see me triggered. I’m like another man at that point, I can hardly control myself. I need help getting this under control.

  26. Loved the first video so I had been waiting for the second. This has been such a huge help. I love your work David, truly. It has helped me in so many ways. I feel completely different about life, dating, and everything else. You do amazing work. Don’t stop helping people!

  27. It just all seems like women want everything without allowing men to have needs themselves. Maybe I am looking at it from a different angle but I have had nothing but bad relationships. I have been told I was too emotional and I was not emotional enough, I was too career focused and I didn’t have enough goals… I just don’t know what women want.

  28. I have been told by various women that they don’t want weak or emotional men but at the same time, they do not want men who never show emotion. I think there is a balance here that is lost on many men dating today. I am glad to see people like you helping bridge the gap and save people from failed relationships.

  29. Coming from a female’s point of view, I love your work but I feel like you over simplified things. I want to carry on watching this series because I would love to learn more about how things can be changed for the better and I am hoping you go into more detail.

  30. I have been on a few dates this year and one of them became a relationship that was short lived. She was very career driven and had no plans of having a family until she was 35+ while I am looking for marriage and kids by the age of 30. I am 25 by the way. I feel like that factors in a lot here. I can afford to wait until I am in my 40s for kids, most women can’t and I think it is a big mistake for women to put off having kids until they are in their mid to late 30s.

  31. I feel like modern men have changed as well. I am not young anymore. I am approaching 50. I feel like there are men who know women are more free and open to sleeping around and they take advantage of that. It has created this strange hook-up culture that is hurting relationships for both men AND women. I can’t wrap my head around it either.

  32. I have been told growing up to be strong and showing my emotions was weak. Now that I am an adult, I am being told the opposite and that I am toxic. How can I be true to my gender as a man if I am being told everything that is masculine is bad?

  33. I loved the segment where you walked through getting in touch with your emotions with the soft music. I feel a lot more relaxed and really more level headed after hearing it. I want to be able to open up more to women but I have been told for decades that it was such a huge turn off for them. Now I am seeing that isn’t the case and I want to fix my issues.

  34. So when I get to a place where I am able to be more romantic and engage in my feelings, and I am able to form a deeper relationship with a woman – How do I go about finding a woman who wants that? I get a lot of mixed feelings on dating apps. It seems some women want this and other women seem to only be interested in wealthy and attractive men. I am average looking and far from wealthy.

  35. I watched both the first and second video. I am learning more and more about myself and why I have struggled with dating. I feel like us men were told to stay where we were in the 1950s while women were told to advance in the 1960s and there was a huge disconnect. Likely why marriages fail at much higher rates and people end up separated after having children. I think forming a friendship should come first. You need an emotional connection with the woman you look to spend your life with.

  36. I have RSR and Invincible.
    Does this upcoming course involve something I would miss out on? If yes, please tell me what. I’m curious.

    • That’s awesome you have those courses already. “Rock Solid Relationships” is specifically focused on long-term relationships and masculinity. Invincible is specifically focused on casual dating. Emotional Mastery is much broader and more general — it’s a therapy course on mastering your emotions in any area of life. The Emotional Mastery program is a multi-year program based on DBT, CBT, Mindfulness, IFS, NVC, and other evidence-based therapy approaches.

  37. I actually thought the meditation was fantastic. I just began meditating, using the Calm app on my cell phone, doing guided meditations. This was the first time I had done one was my eyes open, it was definitely relaxing, I felt myself falling asleep almost or at least my eyes were getting heavy (to my defense, I’m just now finishing up 12 hour workday, I own a business that unfortunately I’m still allowing to own me). Presence has been a struggle for me lately. One simple question would be, would lengthening the meditation and expanding why awareness around me be beneficial? Another note, I’ve been following you since purchasing the program that you recorded for the social man, the emotional activation system. I still think it’s by far the best program they have and honestly i’m barely interested in the pick up stuff anymore, love where your podcast has gone, starting to seek a therapist in my area that’s trained in IFS therapy. I appreciate all the counter that I’ve ever received from you, so thank you

    • Hi Vincent, that’s so wonderful to learn about your progress. Thanks for sharing! And yes, spending more time in mindfulness practice throughout the day and in meditation would definitely improve your Presence skills. In the Emotional Mastery program, I provide step-by-step guidance through many Presence exercises and meditations.

  38. Hi David. This seems extremely good. Im just coming out of a relationship where she told me that we were missing an emotional connection.
    However I am trying to purchase your HEART course but its something wrong with the paymentportal.
    I get this feedback:

    “Card Declined: Your card was declined. Your request was in test mode, but used a non test card. For a list of valid test cards, visit:”

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